Life after the camgirl job

svenni1975 · 2021-05-24 22:25

What happens to these girls when they leave the camgirl business? Okay, some are studying and are earning a few dollars on the side at the moment, but I also see many who have unrealistic goals for the future in terms of their own income.

- some will find a rich man
- some will work in the higher class escort
- some are probably work in local strip clubs or as local prostitutes

But I see with a few that they can imagine doing normal, badly paid work in a supermarket, as a doctor's assistant, nurse or as a saleswoman in retail.

Some girls I got to know better, quit the camgirl job and came back quickly. But it would also be interesting to see how those who stay away shape their new lives.

I wish the girls that they would be successful in another job, but I also doubt many of them.

2021-05-25 0:41

The vast majority of them leave for a few months then come back when funds are running low and/or do something else similar. Escort, prostitution, stripping.

Almost none of them will ever find that "rich husband" for starters if I was wealthy the last place I'd look for a wife is on a cam whore site, that's just a bullshit pipe dream. Some of them are able to quit camming for good and start a normal career but most are not. No regular job will ever give them the instant gratification camming did and that's precisely why most of them come back.

TheEternalPancake · (This post was last modified: 2021-05-25 5:49 by TheEternalPancake.)

I only got a few examples, to wendi_mae and melaniswan being a camgirl was planned from the start to only be a temporary thing while they were studying, when wendi_mae left the first time she left because she were moving and it was also the deal with being recorded by the viewer who tried to blackmail her and came back only because the occupation she got did not get her enough money but left later left again when she got married, i assume living together with someone stabilized her economy.

Melaniswan stopped being a camgirl but did not leave very far and instead got a job in the background and only were in front of the cam when she wanted a break from her objectives and when a room was available, she later left because she did not feel well with those objectives and rather work with something related to her studies and she does last i heard and things are fine.

They never seemed ok with doing the private and/or tip menu stuff.

Slickmaster · 2021-05-25 6:14

(2021-05-24 22:25)svenni1975 Wrote: What happens to these girls when they leave the camgirl business? Okay, some are studying and are earning a few dollars on the side at the moment, but I also see many who have unrealistic goals for the future in terms of their own income.

- some will find a rich man
- some will work in the higher class escort
- some are probably work in local strip clubs or as local prostitutes

But I see with a few that they can imagine doing normal, badly paid work in a supermarket, as a doctor's assistant, nurse or as a saleswoman in retail.

Some girls I got to know better, quit the camgirl job and came back quickly. But it would also be interesting to see how those who stay away shape their new lives.

I wish the girls that they would be successful in another job, but I also doubt many of them.

I know a few who have left and have not gone back. If you found out why they do that job and what it takes for them to leave then it is easier to answer your thoughts.

Newsreader · 2021-05-25 8:33

I am still friends with a camgirl after 5 years offline. She has now been a teacher to small children for 3 years. This was always her dream, she was using camming to help fund her courses.

I admit, not all have happy endings like hers. But with most people, this shows what people have to do, at the beginning, to then reap the rewards for their future dreams.

2021-05-25 8:38

Most girls will just get on with their lives. I dont think that being a camgirl automatically means they're going to be an escort. A lot of western girls do it for fun/income/boredom/attention and the eastern euro girls do it out of desperation or got scammed into it and owe the studio money before they're allowed to leave.
There's absolutely girls that escort or strip outside of it and unfortunately a lot that are probably sex trafficked girls.

paisa_pussy_lover · 2021-05-25 11:27

I only know Colombian girls and can speak from this aspect:

Two former xlatinahotx/barelylegal11 models (Luisa and Daniela) landed rich husbands (one is a rich arab who works for a mining company in Colombia, the other is a rich Italian dude - both at least twice their age).

I know 4 who stopped camming when they finished at university and stuck to their new careers (2 of whom I visited in Bogota) - but like someone else said, that is rare - they were pretty level headed and didn't get caught up in the attention and fame aspect. Another stopped camming because she just hated the work and the creepy users - she works as a carpenter's assistant now.

Many of them are just lazy - so lying on a bed all day fapping and squirting is an ideal job for them. And the money they earn goes through their fingers as fast as water off a duck's back.

2021-05-25 16:47

(2021-05-24 22:25)svenni1975 Wrote: some are studying and are earning a few dollars on the side at the moment

The ones who say that are liars. That is the oldest lie in the stripper 101 manual. Never tell a guy you're a prostitute, then you get paid more money. "I am not a hooker! I'm doing this because you're my friend! You're not like the other guys! Don't tell anybody, this is just between you and me, because you're special! Ok, that will be $10,000 to see my nipple." You stupid gullible fucks.

I have never seen any of them graduate. So many told me they are studying to be a nurse or artist or "entrepreneur" and five years later I see them on Onlyfans getting blacked and looking like they are on meth.

You can ask Melondipidity how her studying is going. She said five years ago she was studying to be a nurse but she is still on MFC. My cousin became a nurse in six months, Melondipidity has been in "college" for so long she could be a brain surgeon by now.

Maybe one exception is CodeMiko from Twitch who managed to turn her life around. She used to be a stripper (there are a few nudes still around) but she learned 3D animation and got a job with the company that makes vtuber software and is now one of the most popular Twitch streamers. She never went to college to study though, she learned from an online course.

Who else I know that left camming they either married a sugar daddy or got into porn and then married a sugar daddy, or they continue prostitution offline with all the whales they got from camming, Tinder, Instagram, Twitch, and through various contacts, etc. I don't know any that went on to do anything legit other than Codemiko. Anyone have a single example of a camgirl who gave up sex work and succeeded at something else?

svenni1975 · 2021-05-25 16:56

(2021-05-25 0:41)Guest Wrote: Almost none of them will ever find that "rich husband" for starters if I was wealthy the last place I'd look for a wife is on a cam whore site, that's just a bullshit pipe dream.

Ofc I wouldn't look for a wife on these sites either, but some of these girls are pretty, can flirt and feign interest in anything. So they can of course inspire rich people in real life too and there are also enough older rich men who only want a pretty young woman on her side, regardless of whether the feelings are real and with whom the girls have masturbated in the past ... see also post by paisa_pussy_lover .

svenni1975 · 2021-05-25 17:01

(2021-05-25 11:27)paisa_pussy_lover Wrote: Many of them are just lazy - so lying on a bed all day fapping and squirting is an ideal job for them. And the money they earn goes through their fingers as fast as water off a duck's back.

Oooh I like this sentence, there is a lot of truth in it. There are some girls who are not physically lazy and they also like to dance. But they are often lazy to really learn something, for example other languages or even a badly paid education. So they can sit on their beds, chat a little, brush their hair and dance, tease or masturbate every from time to time.

svenni1975

(2021-05-25 16:47)Guest Wrote:
(2021-05-24 22:25)svenni1975 Wrote: some are studying and are earning a few dollars on the side at the moment

The ones who say that are liars. That is the oldest lie in the stripper 101 manual. Never tell a guy you're a prostitute, then you get paid more money. "I am not a hooker! I'm doing this because you're my friend! You're not like the other guys! Don't tell anybody, this is just between you and me, because you're special! Ok, that will be $10,000 to see my nipple." You stupid gullible fucks.

I have never seen any of them graduate. So many told me they are studying to be a nurse or artist or "entrepreneur" and five years later I see them on Onlyfans getting blacked and looking like they are on meth.

You can ask Melondipidity how her studying is going. She said five years ago she was studying to be a nurse but she is still on MFC. My cousin became a nurse in six months, Melondipidity has been in "college" for so long she could be a brain surgeon by now.

Maybe one exception is CodeMiko from Twitch who managed to turn her life around. She used to be a stripper (there are a few nudes still around) but she learned 3D animation and got a job with the company that makes vtuber software and is now one of the most popular Twitch streamers. She never went to college to study though, she learned from an online course.

Who else I know that left camming they either married a sugar daddy or got into porn and then married a sugar daddy, or they continue prostitution offline with all the whales they got from camming, Tinder, Instagram, Twitch, and through various contacts, etc. I don't know any that went on to do anything legit other than Codemiko. Anyone have a single example of a camgirl who gave up sex work and succeeded at something else?

The problem is that some of them think that they are really models and dream of a career as an influencer or something like that or their own business without having a specific idea of what. Maybe some can already make a living from scamming their whales outside of the studios. But of course they already know in your subconscious that they are closer to prostitution than being a real model.

I have no contact with girls who have left the job and so I can't cite a good example, but a few other guys seem to know a little more. But i wait for some girls to see them on these sites again.

2021-05-25 17:14

(2021-05-25 16:49)Guest Wrote:
(2021-05-25 8:38)Guest Wrote: A lot of western girls do it for fun/income/boredom/attention

I almost puked in my mouth reading that. You're so fucking clueless. The western girls are hookers too! What is it that you don't understand about this?

He never said they weren't, he was just stating that a decent chunk of western users also do it for the thrill, pay for college etc. I'm sure a decent amount do that elsewhere as well.

paisa_pussy_lover · 2021-05-25 17:17

(2021-05-25 17:01)svenni1975 Wrote:
(2021-05-25 11:27)paisa_pussy_lover Wrote: Many of them are just lazy - so lying on a bed all day fapping and squirting is an ideal job for them. And the money they earn goes through their fingers as fast as water off a duck's back.

Oooh I like this sentence, there is a lot of truth in it. There are some girls who are not physically lazy and they also like to dance. But they are often lazy to really learn something, for example other languages or even a badly paid education. So they can sit on their beds, chat a little, brush their hair and dance, tease or masturbate every from time to time.

After being the center of attention as a camwhore, there is no glamour in working as a waitress or as a cashier in a supermarket. They just fuck off from camming and get pregnant by some piece of shit after they ruin their bodies with tattoos hahahahahahaha

2021-05-25 17:17

The ones that are landing the rich husbands are usually either very attractive, or actual charismatic camgirls that will actually appear to enjoy camming, and can hold conversation. The ones that just sit around waiting for a token to vibrate their cooch probably aren't as lucky.

bikenson · 2021-05-25 18:13

99.99% of cam girls who stop camming just safely, quietly disappear shutting down the fake instagram, snapchat, telegram or whatsapps etc.

Newsreader · 2021-05-25 18:19

(2021-05-25 17:17)Guest Wrote: The ones that are landing the rich husbands are usually either very attractive, or actual charismatic camgirls that will actually appear to enjoy camming, and can hold conversation. The ones that just sit around waiting for a token to vibrate their cooch probably aren't as lucky.

This made me laugh, as one model I know is slowly going crazy because of her dreams of being rich.

She started off as a really funny, chatting girl. Then she got a LOVENSE, her whole attitude changed, and would just sit waiting for tips. We all knew she was faking the LOVENSE tips, but the main part of us 'regulars' was still the tip and laugh attitude to her room.

Sadly, with her change in now wanting only tokens, a lot left, and even I slowed down, as it was just not fun anymore. Now, at times I watch and everytime a guy with tokens enters, maybe says ''hi'' then leaves, she waves her arms around with anger.

She, I know, is one of these girls who has never done a days work in her life. And now also, has resorted to sending messages to us to help her pay her rent, and or give 'Gift Cards'.

I have told her to quit camming and find a regular job. He response was that 'IT IS HARD BEING A WOMAN'

OK Smile

svenni1975 · 2021-05-25 19:23

(2021-05-25 17:17)Guest Wrote: The ones that are landing the rich husbands are usually either very attractive, or actual charismatic camgirls that will actually appear to enjoy camming, and can hold conversation. The ones that just sit around waiting for a token to vibrate their cooch probably aren't as lucky.

I'm already talking about girls who have had some success as camgirls, also have a few more talents than just fake-moaning on a lush. They earned a decent income compared to the average wages in their country. But ofc they are used to a certain standard that they don't easily earn in a non-sex job. So they need a man who can finance it ... now the only question is whether he also wants an ex-camgirl by his side. So there's a big chance they'll not end up with the dream-prince.

svenni1975 · 2021-05-25 19:33

(2021-05-25 18:13)bikenson Wrote: 99.99% of cam girls who stop camming just safely, quietly disappear shutting down the fake instagram, snapchat, telegram or whatsapps etc.

I don't think it's 99%, I spoke to some of them on their last day (and they announced it) and noticed that they had enough of this job, but had no concrete plan for something new. I saw most of these girls again 3-4 months later with a lot of explanation as to why they came back ... but I couldn't believe every word they told me.

But I always understood the reasons why they left. The same often boring and dull conversations every day, being fake to be interested in every stupid fetish and sitting on a bed for 10 hours. It's certainly not that cool for the more intelligent girls. But i think succesful girls earn 10 times the money than as in a uusual other job in their country.

BeardyWeirdy · 2021-05-25 20:09

A year ago I met a girl on LJ who told me she was only going to be on long enough to make some money and then return to school in the fall semester. True to her word she messaged me she was done camming and since then haven't seen her since under same nick or another handle. Maybe she went to another website but she didn't mince words saying she didn't enjoy camming but it was a means to an end.

svenni1975 · 2021-05-25 20:23

(2021-05-25 20:09)BeardyWeirdy Wrote: A year ago I met a girl on LJ who told me she was only going to be on long enough to make some money and then return to school in the fall semester. True to her word she messaged me she was done camming and since then haven't seen her since under same nick or another handle. Maybe she went to another website but she didn't mince words saying she didn't enjoy camming but it was a means to an end.

Ofc they have good times smetimes too, but freechat is certainly not always cool and I would say more than half of the pvts aren't either. I heard about so strange things, also hotflirt girls have to see. These things they really do only for the money....

bikenson · 2021-05-25 21:16

(2021-05-25 19:33)svenni1975 Wrote:
(2021-05-25 18:13)bikenson Wrote: 99.99% of cam girls who stop camming just safely, quietly disappear shutting down the fake instagram, snapchat, telegram or whatsapps etc.

I don't think it's 99%, I spoke to some of them on their last day (and they announced it) and noticed that they had enough of this job, but had no concrete plan for something new. I saw most of these girls again 3-4 months later with a lot of explanation as to why they came back ... but I couldn't believe every word they told me.

But I always understood the reasons why they left. The same often boring and dull conversations every day, being fake to be interested in every stupid fetish and sitting on a bed for 10 hours. It's certainly not that cool for the more intelligent girls. But i think succesful girls earn 10 times the money than as in a uusual other job in their country.

Sorry, I meant they don't announce what they are doing afterwards like 'this is my last day and I am going to be (fill in the blank here).

You point to some good reasons why they leave though never mind dealing with users.

svenni1975

(2021-05-25 21:16)bikenson Wrote: [quote="bikenson" pid='3859989' dateline='1621966386']

Sorry, I meant they don't announce what they are doing afterwards like 'this is my last day and I am going to be (fill in the blank here).

You point to some good reasons why they leave though never mind dealing with users.

Okay, you're right, they just announced their last day and made pretty vague statements about their future plans. mostly it was like this ... I don't do 4 weeks anything and then watch what to do. I knew one girl who wanted to write a book about her experiences and failed after 2 weeks and came back after 4 months. I know one girl who wanted to open a photo studio and is also back in the meantime, or one girl who wants to illustrate children's books, but is still in the business. So some plans look okay, but others are unrealistic. Often these things are more wishes than plans.

And one girl i know a little bit better really dreamed about to have a family with kids. I believed her that it was not really possible to be with a guy while camming but it was her wish to have a normal life and a relation to a guy. But i still think it is not to easy to find the guy who can live with this past and not so easy for the girl to live with average money.

2021-05-25 23:43

I read you guys and I realize you are not even considering the most basic thing. Most camgirls (80%) are between 18 and 22 years old and are experiencing mental issues, addiction and/or trauma. They don't know shit about life nor what they want to do with it. They live for today. They only desperately want to escape from adult world and their condition by doing whatever it takes. They have no fucking formal project beyond going to the mall and hairstylist when they receive their earnings. Easy comes easy goes.

They are not so different from lost young people in general except they started camming whereas some other fools will start to be violent, drink, stole or deal shit to survive because there is nobody to stop them from doing stupid things.

But no matter what, after some years, most camgirls just start to act like normal adults.

You guys are basically talking about girls you managed to knight on social media some day... that's great, but you don't know them, you don't know their culture and how they live except from your westerner interpretation.

And the only reason you are still their internet "friend" (assuming you are not sending them money on PayPal to feed this genuine friendship) is because they perfectly know they will never meet you.

svenni1975 · 2021-05-26 15:46

(2021-05-25 23:43)Guest Wrote: I read you guys and I realize you are not even considering the most basic thing. Most camgirls (80%) are between 18 and 22 years old and are experiencing mental issues, addiction and/or trauma. They don't know shit about life nor what they want to do with it. They live for today. They only desperately want to escape from adult world and their condition by doing whatever it takes. They have no fucking formal project beyond going to the mall and hairstylist when they receive their earnings. Easy comes easy goes.

They are not so different from lost young people in general except they started camming whereas some other fools will start to be violent, drink, stole or deal shit to survive because there is nobody to stop them from doing stupid things.

Okay, you are ofc right that they are young and often did not have the best childhood or youth, that explains a lot that they have no real idea of their own future.

svenni1975 · 2021-05-26 15:54

(2021-05-25 23:43)Guest Wrote: You guys are basically talking about girls you managed to knight on social media some day... that's great, but you don't know them, you don't know their culture and how they live except from your westerner interpretation.

And the only reason you are still their internet "friend" (assuming you are not sending them money on PayPal to feed this genuine friendship) is because they perfectly know they will never meet you.

I have to correct that, I've never had contact with any of these girls after they left the job and I don't look for contact on other social media sites either. I always accepted that as a job and always knew that I would never see the girls in real life.

A few girls i would like to know in what has become of them. Sometimes i hear some news of them from the girls who are still on the sites and ofc some retired girls came back very soon.

2021-05-26 16:08

interesting thread. Some models appear to be fairly well off of at least from a wealthy family. newchloe18 comes to mind and maybe anna_shine_. They both live in nice homes in SE Asia away from their birth countries and seem to be doing well as 2 of the top camming models out there. i don't know much about either, but it is interesting to see financially stable cammers out there. Thoughs?

Big D

2021-05-26 16:28

(2021-05-25 19:23)svenni1975 Wrote: I'm already talking about girls who have had some success as cam girls, also have a few more talents than just fake-moaning on a lush. They earned a decent income compared to the average wages in their country. But ofc they are used to a certain standard that they don't easily earn in a non-sex job. So they need a man who can finance it ... now the only question is whether he also wants an ex-camgirl by his side. So there's a big chance they'll not end up with the dream-prince.

Think about those who are well off, most of those men are probably 45+ and financially well set. Some probably won't even care what the girl did, they are just happy to land an attractive girl. Its also becoming less frowned upon, with the overload of Onlyfans. Also being a cam girl isn't as bad as being a pornstar. A lot cam girls are just nude exhibitionists with a pink vibrator. If some top pornstars can do well for themselves and actually land a guy, wouldn't be surprised with a cam girl landing one. Even though camming has become popular, it is easier to fade into obscenity with it.

2021-05-26 19:17

(2021-05-25 18:13)bikenson Wrote: 99.99% of cam girls who stop camming just safely, quietly disappear shutting down the fake instagram, snapchat, telegram or whatsapps etc.

This. I kept in contact with two girls after they left, both were students, now in regular office jobs, one is married, the other in on and off relationships. Totally normal lifes.

I can't believe how many people apparently really believe the majority become hookers or something.

svenni1975 · 2021-05-26 19:52

Ofc that also depends on how and how long they have done the job as a camgirl and I have also seen hotflirt- or soulmates-girls who think a lot about what they will do later. But it is also clear that they will probably not be able to maintain their standard of living in other jobs. I don't think that 99.9% will live in very normal lifes, but ofc also not that 99% end up as a hooker. We talked before about the different ways they probably will go.

cdan783474578484575 · 2021-05-26 20:09

what happens to the girls who stay for 5 years or more? when they get old what happens?

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