(2021-04-22 13:26)lazzarev Wrote: [quote="Guest" pid='3842498' dateline='1619084889']
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- Remember she's not a robot doing exactly what you ask for on request. Some of them are actually VERY submissive but still human beings you need to somewhat convince, seduce, turn on and most importantly put comfortable. The less you are an asshole with them, the more your increase your chances of NOT being scammed.
Quote:Yeah, thanks for the advice numbnuts. Being nice guarantees nothing. In some cases it will even increase you chance of being scammed. When you are nice to them they make excuses not to do anything, they tell you to come back again after they already wasted your money, and they try to sell you shit.
True, it guarantees nothing. But with experience, you learn how to deal with them. I talked with something like 700+ models and engaged in hundreds private shows. In 1 year, I must have been scammed 10 or 20 times which is - in my opinion at least - an acceptable rate.
Quote:It all depends on who you are dealing with. Some are nice, some need to be bitch slapped and taught some respect. It's not easy to tell, some of the ones that seem nice at first will fuck you over later in your "relationship" with the stupid bitch. They aren't really nice, they are devious.
One thing they all have in common though, they all lie about practically everything. They are never going to tell you everything they do, because they want you to pay for the most low effort shit they can scam you into paying for. You think a ho that's been on cam for years is shy or hasn't sucked a 1000 cocks? Next time you are talking to one and she acts shy remind her of how many cocks she's sucked.
I guess you are missing the fact that most of them become camgirls because they basically have some issues with respect and self esteem. Also they are streaming for money,
they most likely need that money to live, in some situations they have to pay for studies or to help family because the mother must stay at home to take care of 5 younger kids and the father is gone or became some unemployed alcoholic zombie.
Some of them work as camgirl just to leave parents house asap because of violence, depression and because they can't endure this anymore..
And finally, some of them are subject to addictions. Or all this shit in a row.
So in such situation, you would probably be a bitch too, you would lie... you would be disrespectful and scam at first opportunity without shame because you need to survive.
Just think about it.
I too have had quite a few experiences with cam girls. Advice to all is this: This isn't a chat room or a dating site. This is her job. If you are seeing hundreds of private shows a year, you have a problem. Get a real girl or at the least, go out and try.You are right about some of the models being nice and some have been brought up in terrible conditions but the truth of the matter is they are sex workers. This is a sex site. Models should be held accountable for their performance just like any other person who is paid for the quality of the service they perform. I don't think you need to be rude, but it is not wrong to ask, in a pm and not in public chat what they will do in private. It is a simple question. If they don't give one of 3 answers, you might be scammed. the answers are either I am non nude, I am nude or nude for extra tokens. If you don't get one of those answers, leave. A model who allows spying and doesn't treat everyone equally will piss people off. Another thing I learned is if a model doesn't show in public and doesn't allow spying, don't waste your time and money. Guys, use your brain. If you are in a site and hear a bell different to the one you normally hear, she is multitasking in more than one room. Almost all studio models do it. Take the effort to find where the other site is. it is usually stripchat or my free cams. If you see her go private, go to the other site and see if she is broadcasting there. If she is, you should leave.