(2023-01-21 11:46)Alanchik Wrote: (2023-01-20 23:46)dont sugar coat Wrote: Tell me in what world, a 20-year-old woman, who most likely has a bf or husband would even remotely be interested, or even worse attracted to and fall in love with a 60, 70, 80-year-old guy??
They won't and don't! Don't know what country you live in, but in mine it just will not happen. Do yourself a favor, go outside, blow the stink off, go to a restaurant or bar and strike up a conversation with a 20-year-old, and see what happens.
Most likely they will run the other way, and think you are a creepy old ass stalker. No matter what you say, no matter what you do, they will think you are crazy.
If you are so lonely it's ok but try models your own age if you want more than to have a chat with people and some fun. If you visit to find a relationship or to fall in love with WS 20-year-olds, they have 1 mission. I can guarantee you it's not falling in love or living with old dudes.
There should be a light that goes off in your head if they won't even move off the furniture, and even just standing up is a 15-dollar action. Most just sit and wait, doing nothing until a LJ lonely lifer comes in and hands them money for nothing. This is the reason they do nothing in chat. Why would they if guys fall in love and pay them for sitting?
I feel bad for many guys, and have thought long about posting here, but the actions of the entitled spoiled little brats have convinced me to start sharing the truth.
Try swimming against the tide once. You will be banned for no reason, and they will try and make you out as evil, even if you are the nicest guy. For some odd reason, they do not like the truth. This is all one group, one goal. Some are not so smart haven't even lived their lives yet, are captain obvious as they fish for lonely guys, but they all seem to find those slaves who will just open up the wallet for a smile and a fake kiss.
I have watched this forum and felt bad for Dolphin after Brittney played him. But truth be told, when you sit in chat and tell these vultures how much money you have, how much you will be getting, when you will be getting it, and how much you intend to do with them when you get paid, what do you think will happen? It's their job to get money from members. If they have to say they love you or they want a future with you, they say it.
Now Dolphin says how badly he was played but is right back with Ginny doing the same stupid shit, and she is eating it up. She knows when he will have money and will be waiting with open arms.
Not to mention the send me a photo in message game that is the newest scam. I watched a camgirl ask for a picture of the sunshine! Doesn't the sun shine the same in Russia?? Pay $2.50 to send the weather picture? Wake the FFF up people.
A picture of the sunshine...hahahaha...yes I would never go that far and I never pay 2.50...$1.50 is going to be my limit on messages and with Britney I wrote to many even with that.But lets talk of Ginny a moment..she has told me clearly she wont try the love card with me.She knows what happened with me and Britney.She never asks me for money at all.But I know she is a good girl and anything I do it will be because I simply wish to.With Britney the job changed her after the first month.When I first went to her room she told me several times dont spend to much money on her...but later her rules have become ridiculous."You cant sit in her room long...20 minutes she told me...you cant sit in her room at all unless you private.When a new member comes in the room...everyone else must stop talking completely "Shhh rule" and if a member comes in the room and spends money every trip in...all others must stop talking when he does so even though I spent more money than anyone in there. But that rule did not apply when I was there with money.She wont be there long now...go to Camroster.com and look at her stats.From January of 2022 until July of 2022 her stats were 20% and higher.In August we started having problems..and she fell to 16%. I began being more cautious.. so September 16%,October 14%...November 13%...In December we had talked and I went back for a few days and she had risen back to 18%...but of course soon after she blamed me for something I didnt even understand or for what.She wrote a message that was negative and I left her again..January now 13%.She recently wrote me again saying she wanted to talk..I ignored her.After we all have found out what Ruby did and that Britney is her best friend..it seems to me the best thing to do is run as far away from her as possible.
Alan, sit back and just think for a minute. You spend good money just to tell the new one about how the last one screwed you over. (All these girls work together and discuss members) You tell her about the love card. Now after that ofc she will tell you that she won't do that and won't ask for money right away. Especially if you are handing it to her on a silver platter telling her about Kristy. But you notice she will sit with the meter ticking for hours and say yes Alan, you're so right.
She doesn't need to ask yet because you are handing it to her for doing nothing but sitting and listening. 100% she will do that for months if you allow it.
I guess my question is, when you meet them, they are all good girls. Kristy was. So why, because they are good girls, do you feel the need to hand out money? As a camgirl they have one agenda, to get as much money, from as many members as they can. Plain and simple. You told her when you will have money and that you will spend it on her! No need to ask for it.
Have you ever noticed they are the ones who sit and do not one thing in free chat? It is because guys like you, they know will come in and dump a load of money on them. Why would they get up if they can sit on their ass and make thousands. Those goofy masks are strictly to show the camgirls who the big fish are. Notice how many messages you got when you had that white mask?
As long as you walk in with that black mask or higher, they know you are their target. Say what you want, but that is what their job consists of. Milking guys for every penny. They will take every cent from you, just like the last one would have, just like RS did, and not lose one minute of sleep over it, while you toss and turn broke, and with a broken heart.
Don't spend for a couple of weeks, and you will see clearly how the game is played, and yes, it is just a game of cat and mouse.
I don't think the guys comment here because they are mean, I think they comment in hopes that you will understand this game. I'm guessing you have worked hard most of your life, I hate to see you with little money because of the young girl's greed. They won't stop.
I watched a guy say he can't find a job because of his age and health, said he had no credits, and instead of the greedy one saying don't worry about it, get back on your feet, she said send me a photo of what you are cooking when you can. That is the mentality that some work off of. To them 2.50 for a message is nothing, but for some guys, a few messages and photos is an hour's wages. For what? They don't give a rat's ass about what you cook, what you look like, your dog, your garden, etc.
As far as your father, that's great, but I will take a guess that the young lady he married was not a camgirl. Never confuse reality with the virtual scamming game.
I wish you luck but put the wallet away for a while and see what happens. You might be very surprised.