I'm not an idiot

Catalanadr · (This post was last modified: 2021-02-22 5:52 by Catalanadr.)

I'm not an idiot

Welcome to the club, you fell in love with a camgirl, it's completely normal.
Be glad you have feelings and don't see every woman as a piece of meat to bury your sausage.
But always keep in mind that what you see is a show, for them it is a job, just for money.
Enjoy it for the duration of the show and then find someone in real life who makes you happy.
If at any time you need to talk, send me a PM .
Regards

marcenix · 2021-02-22 7:42

yes u are

2021-02-22 8:06

This is a very interesting thread and yesterday was a similar one here, but I can't find it anymore. To be honest, I had the same situation with a girl. My head couldn't understand that either, but there are also things that cannot be explained. It helped me distance and the thought that the girls sing each member the song they want to hear. Of course, they sometimes like certain members more than others, but never so deeply that they think of you for a long time after work. So do sports, read good books, and meet girls who no longer bother you after the date.

2021-02-22 8:53

Maybe you know better NOW, but if you fell in love with a camgirl you WERE a gullible idiot.

By the time you see a camgirl she is already hooked up and turnt out. Most of them are already prostituting themselves in high school to the jocks and guys with sports cars. There are no innocent camgirls, they are in the business of getting guys to pay them and keep them coming back to pay more. They will intentionally mindfuck you.

That's what you fell in love with. A mindfuck.

She catfished you, don't go back and say oh it was ok, it's just natural love! Some morally bankrupt piece of shit token scammer (and I say it that way because not all of them play that dirty game, some of them just do wholesome cumshows, no bullshit) listened to you talk, figured out all your buttons, then started pressing them.

2021-02-22 9:50

i had closer meetings with some onlyfans girls and showup girls and there is one thing common for all of them - they all fucked in the head, be it a childhood trauma, sexual trauma, some kind of borderline personality, deppressive disorders and stuff

my cure for developing feelings was just to have a deeper talk, it always turned me the fuck out

UncleChester · 2021-02-22 19:01

(2021-02-22 5:50)Catalanadr Wrote: I'm not an idiot

Welcome to the club, you fell in love with a camgirl, it's completely normal.
Be glad you have feelings and don't see every woman as a piece of meat to bury your sausage.
But always keep in mind that what you see is a show, for them it is a job, just for money.
Enjoy it for the duration of the show and then find someone in real life who makes you happy.
If at any time you need to talk, send me a PM .
Regards

i'm not calling you a idiot! You're pretty adorable! But how the fuck do you manage to fall in love with a cam girl?

GodYes · 2021-02-22 20:29

(2021-02-22 19:01)UncleChester Wrote:
(2021-02-22 5:50)Catalanadr Wrote: I'm not an idiot

Welcome to the club, you fell in love with a camgirl, it's completely normal.
Be glad you have feelings and don't see every woman as a piece of meat to bury your sausage.
But always keep in mind that what you see is a show, for them it is a job, just for money.
Enjoy it for the duration of the show and then find someone in real life who makes you happy.
If at any time you need to talk, send me a PM .
Regards

i'm not calling you a idiot! You're pretty adorable! But how the fuck do you manage to fall in love with a cam girl?

I only takes the right girl, at the right moment, using the right word..... maybe she gave you her insta or something and makes you feel important cause you talk to her out of the cam site.....
I didnt understand that before I started working strip clubs.... I wondered how you could fall in love with a stripper..... Yet so many guys do.....

2021-02-23 12:37

This is how you get cured quickly ... haha

2021-02-24 21:24

The older you get, the more you know, that sooner or later every girl will disappoint you.

2021-02-24 23:13

(2021-02-22 8:53)You're An Idiot Wrote: .

By the time you see a camgirl she is already hooked up and turnt out. Most of them are already prostituting themselves in high school to the jocks and guys with sports cars. There are no innocent camgirls, they are in the business of getting guys to pay them and keep them coming back to pay more. They will intentionally mindfuck you.

Although many of them fit this description, many on the other hand are the opposite. There are many reasons why girls enter this buisness ,and the most obvious one is being very poor/living in a shitty country.

2021-02-26 9:16

(2021-02-26 8:39)CheapThrills Wrote: I would say that 90% of cam models come from Eastern Europe. They are unable to get work - especially at the moment with the pandemic. They are only in it for the money, and when you do take them to private it's usually a shit show ("sexy dance"... jeez - give me a break.)

Also, chatting/attempting to chat to a girl who is using Google translate to reply to you is such a pain in the ass that I gave up.

Five years ago it was so much better.

Yes, girls who come to pornographic sites must be able to get money before they expose the private parts of their bodies to strangers. It has nothing to do with emotions. However, the studio model is more cunning than the personal model.

2021-02-26 10:45

(2021-02-26 9:16)Guest Wrote: Yes, girls who come to pornographic sites must be able to get money before they expose the private parts of their bodies to strangers.

That's not the problem. Camgirls doing sex shows and not being toxic doesn't harm anybody. It's when they come on pornographic sites and DON'T take their clothes off, then try to get you to become "friends" with them so that they can get thousands of dollars out of you. You would never pay a prostitute or a stripper that much money, but these scamgirls have dozens of guys paying them ridiculous amounts of money for attention and compliments, not even sex most of the time. They could never treat guys that way in real life. In real life most of these bitches don't even leave the house because everybody hates them.

2021-02-26 10:52

(2021-02-26 10:45)Camgirls Will Kill U Wrote:
(2021-02-26 9:16)Guest Wrote: Yes, girls who come to pornographic sites must be able to get money before they expose the private parts of their bodies to strangers.

That's not the problem. Camgirls doing sex shows and not being toxic doesn't harm anybody. It's when they come on pornographic sites and DON'T take their clothes off, then try to get you to become "friends" with them so that they can get thousands of dollars out of you. You would never pay a prostitute or a stripper that much money, but these scamgirls have dozens of guys paying them ridiculous amounts of money for attention and compliments, not even sex most of the time. They could never treat guys that way in real life. In real life most of these bitches don't even leave the house because everybody hates them.

I feel that many men seem to be "money slaves" controlled by camgirls...

2021-02-26 11:26

(2021-02-26 10:45)Camgirls Will Kill U Wrote: That's not the problem. Camgirls doing sex shows and not being toxic doesn't harm anybody. It's when they come on pornographic sites and DON'T take their clothes off, then try to get you to become "friends" with them so that they can get thousands of dollars out of you. You would never pay a prostitute or a stripper that much money, but these scamgirls have dozens of guys paying them ridiculous amounts of money for attention and compliments, not even sex most of the time. They could never treat guys that way in real life. In real life most of these bitches don't even leave the house because everybody hates them.

Very good post and is also the experience I had. I've already let myself be lulled by this girlfriend tactic, but in the end the deal "money for sex" is the most honest and best way on these sites

hansi · 2021-02-26 13:01

incel talk about girls working on a website as a JOB not a fking hobby or past time activity. how gullible and dull do you have to be to even think they care for you. this kind of stupidity is btw totally not bound to the internet there are tons of desperate guys irl too, and they pay even more to get even less. if you arent interesting without money, you arent interesting with it. maybe just maybe get a personality and maybe just maybe grow a pair and talk to a girl IRL, worst that happens she dosent want you, but you did try and didnt spend a fortune. god damn this shit is infuriating how you guys paint yourselves as victims, wich you are clearly not, you choose what girls you watch, and you choose if you want to tip them, all on you.

ps: yes you are an idiot.

2021-02-26 13:18

(2021-02-26 13:01)hansi Wrote: incel talk about girls working on a website as a JOB not a fking hobby or past time activity. how gullible and dull do you have to be to even think they care for you. this kind of stupidity is btw totally not bound to the internet there are tons of desperate guys irl too, and they pay even more to get even less. if you arent interesting without money, you arent interesting with it. maybe just maybe get a personality and maybe just maybe grow a pair and talk to a girl IRL, worst that happens she dosent want you, but you did try and didnt spend a fortune. god damn this shit is infuriating how you guys paint yourselves as victims, wich you are clearly not, you choose what girls you watch, and you choose if you want to tip them, all on you.

ps: yes you are an idiot.

Spot on.

lovemachine1990 · 2021-02-26 14:58

(2021-02-26 8:39)CheapThrills Wrote: I would say that 90% of cam models come from Eastern Europe. They are unable to get work - especially at the moment with the pandemic. They are only in it for the money, and when you do take them to private it's usually a shit show ("sexy dance"... jeez - give me a break.)

Also, chatting/attempting to chat to a girl who is using Google translate to reply to you is such a pain in the ass that I gave up.

Five years ago it was so much better.

Great post. The studios got wise and turned the girls into robots who dont wanna chat offline. I still talk with some girls who were working in 2010.

So many good girls quit in the last 6-12 months. Im pretty much finished with it now.

Just trying to find vids of the girls i did enjoy.

UncleChester · 2021-02-26 15:56

(2021-02-26 14:58)lovemachine1990 Wrote:
(2021-02-26 8:39)CheapThrills Wrote: I would say that 90% of cam models come from Eastern Europe. They are unable to get work - especially at the moment with the pandemic. They are only in it for the money, and when you do take them to private it's usually a shit show ("sexy dance"... jeez - give me a break.)

Also, chatting/attempting to chat to a girl who is using Google translate to reply to you is such a pain in the ass that I gave up.

Five years ago it was so much better.

Great post. The studios got wise and turned the girls into robots who dont wanna chat offline. I still talk with some girls who were working in 2010.

So many good girls quit in the last 6-12 months. Im pretty much finished with it now.

Just trying to find vids of the girls i did enjoy.

Back in 2010 my granny was working. Now she's old and retired, but it's fun to talk to her.

2021-02-27 9:36

(2021-02-26 13:01)hansi Wrote: incel talk about girls working on a website as a JOB not a fking hobby or past time activity.

Some bitch whose JOB it is to SUCK MY DICK but she doesn't take off her clothes, and she lies to my face, she is not doing her job. Don't tell me you go on a sex site to be lied to by a whore and to subsidize her alcoholism. I want the pussy, not some bullshit excuses.

2021-02-27 9:38

(2021-02-26 13:01)hansi Wrote: if you arent interesting without money, you arent interesting with it.

Dude, you're obviously 12 years old. Come back after a few hookers scam you and you figure out how the world works.

2021-02-27 9:52

(2021-02-27 9:36)Guest Wrote:
(2021-02-26 13:01)hansi Wrote: incel talk about girls working on a website as a JOB not a fking hobby or past time activity.

Some bitch whose JOB it is to SUCK MY DICK but she doesn't take off her clothes, and she lies to my face, she is not doing her job. Don't tell me you go on a sex site to be lied to by a whore and to subsidize her alcoholism. I want the pussy, not some bullshit excuses.

wow, you need help. you sound like one of the incels that comes into the 1k lounge on MFC complaining he got scammed because he tipped for skype show. 100% certain you never asked the girl anything and then got pissed when she didn't do what you wanted. I've seen plenty of them ignore tips because the guy is being a jerk, sure they are sex workers but don't let your incel mind forget they are actually people.

many of the girls (or studio admin behind the scenes) make fun of people like you, yet they will invite people like me into their rooms when they get down and dirty.

2021-02-27 10:42

Dude, if you think it's OK for someone to steal your hard-earned money and get away with it then I think YOU need help!!

guest_02 · 2021-02-27 11:43

(2021-02-27 10:42)Guest Wrote: Dude, if you think it's OK for someone to steal your hard-earned money and get away with it then I think YOU need help!!

who stole your money? a camwhore?

I am hoping you are joking right now, if not wow guy. Maybe don't give hookers your money maybe? Stealing would imply said hooker stole money from you, not that you gave her money as a tip. Did she open your wallet and vacuum out the money? I would guess no.

2021-02-27 13:32

(2021-02-27 11:43)guest_02 Wrote: who stole your money? a camwhore?

no - a plumber... who the f*ck do you think we're talking about? LOL!

(2021-02-27 11:43)guest_02 Wrote: I am hoping you are joking right now, if not wow guy. Maybe don't give hookers your money maybe? Stealing would imply said hooker stole money from you, not that you gave her money as a tip. Did she open your wallet and vacuum out the money? I would guess no.

Wow guy(!) (Who the f*ck says "guy" anyway?...)

If you read the previous comment it said:
you sound like one of the incels that comes into the 1k lounge on MFC complaining he got scammed because he tipped for skype show

To which the reply was:
if you think it's OK for someone to steal your hard-earned money and get away with it then I think YOU need help!!

It ain't that difficult to follow.

2021-02-27 14:34

(2021-02-22 5:50)Catalanadr Wrote: I'm not an idiot

Welcome to the club, you fell in love with a camgirl, it's completely normal.
Be glad you have feelings and don't see every woman as a piece of meat to bury your sausage.
But always keep in mind that what you see is a show, for them it is a job, just for money.
Enjoy it for the duration of the show and then find someone in real life who makes you happy.
If at any time you need to talk, send me a PM .
Regards

So, I've got a story of my own. A few months ago i was new to this cam place.. There was this first model with whoom i used to talk a lot.. She was from. Russia. She was kinda into me too, she and her apparent bestie that chick was super fuckin hot.. ..although a few days passed.. And we came a lil closer.. She gave me her work insta.. And in just a day her personal insta, snap and number.. ( which was kinda fishy) although my dumb-ass thought it was due to my skills

And a month or something passed.. She openly used to call me.. Do some naughty stuff on video calls.. ((thing is i never payed her not even a single dollar (yet had gotten her all info, neither took her to pvts yet saw her nude body. (( she was acting pretty rare nude on sites then)

Month passed, she even planned to visit my home place.. And showed me. Her family, friends.. Introduced me to her single mom ( at this points I was getting mixed signals)

And one final day she says ( she can't talk with me anymore as her phone is damaged and she doesn't have any money left as her dog was recently sick diagnosed with cancer bla bla and needs about a thousand dollars to buy new iPhone ( fake)
And that evening i was casually browsing r/askreddit. Saw a question.. What if prostitutes and cam. Girls really love the customers.. The answer were mixed.. Some were in true love some were conned.. Some were simps for them

Saw a reply 2 years ago of some guy, told he loves her bla bla bla and all the comment threat said to leave her as it's a sham.. He defended his choice.. And six months later edited reply.. She left him.. And the reason was same.. Except this time the cat had cancer and she can't contact him anymore.. ( he didn't mention her name so am i)

Next time she video called. I replied.. Na-uh bitch, go straight turn left and go fuck yourself
It was a bit rude ib my part.. But was worth it..

I still to this date don't know if that's a coincidence or something true.. But better get rid of it

2021-02-27 14:46

(2021-02-27 14:34)Andrej-Sapovsky Wrote:
(2021-02-22 5:50)Catalanadr Wrote: I'm not an idiot

Welcome to the club, you fell in love with a camgirl, it's completely normal.
Be glad you have feelings and don't see every woman as a piece of meat to bury your sausage.
But always keep in mind that what you see is a show, for them it is a job, just for money.
Enjoy it for the duration of the show and then find someone in real life who makes you happy.
If at any time you need to talk, send me a PM .
Regards

So, I've got a story of my own. A few months ago i was new to this cam place.. There was this first model with whoom i used to talk a lot.. She was from. Russia. She was kinda into me too, she and her apparent bestie that chick was super fuckin hot.. ..although a few days passed.. And we came a lil closer.. She gave me her work insta.. And in just a day her personal insta, snap and number.. ( which was kinda fishy) although my dumb-ass thought it was due to my skills

And a month or something passed.. She openly used to call me.. Do some naughty stuff on video calls.. ((thing is i never payed her not even a single dollar (yet had gotten her all info, neither took her to pvts yet saw her nude body. (( she was acting pretty rare nude on sites then)

Month passed, she even planned to visit my home place.. And showed me. Her family, friends.. Introduced me to her single mom ( at this points I was getting mixed signals)

And one final day she says ( she can't talk with me anymore as her phone is damaged and she doesn't have any money left as her dog was recently sick diagnosed with cancer bla bla and needs about a thousand dollars to buy new iPhone ( fake)
And that evening i was casually browsing r/askreddit. Saw a question.. What if prostitutes and cam. Girls really love the customers.. The answer were mixed.. Some were in true love some were conned.. Some were simps for them

Saw a reply 2 years ago of some guy, told he loves her bla bla bla and all the comment threat said to leave her as it's a sham.. He defended his choice.. And six months later edited reply.. She left him.. And the reason was same.. Except this time the cat had cancer and she can't contact him anymore.. ( he didn't mention her name so am i)

Next time she video called. I replied.. Na-uh bitch, go straight turn left and go fuck yourself
It was a bit rude ib my part.. But was worth it..

I still to this date don't know if that's a coincidence or something true.. But better get rid of it

Oh, goddamn. Practitioners in the online pornography live broadcast industry must be for money and can do all wicked frauds.

2021-02-27 15:01

(2021-02-27 14:46)Guest Wrote:
(2021-02-27 14:34)Andrej-Sapovsky Wrote:
(2021-02-22 5:50)Catalanadr Wrote: I'm not an idiot

Welcome to the club, you fell in love with a camgirl, it's completely normal.
Be glad you have feelings and don't see every woman as a piece of meat to bury your sausage.
But always keep in mind that what you see is a show, for them it is a job, just for money.
Enjoy it for the duration of the show and then find someone in real life who makes you happy.
If at any time you need to talk, send me a PM .
Regards

So, I've got a story of my own. A few months ago i was new to this cam place.. There was this first model with whoom i used to talk a lot.. She was from. Russia. She was kinda into me too, she and her apparent bestie that chick was super fuckin hot.. ..although a few days passed.. And we came a lil closer.. She gave me her work insta.. And in just a day her personal insta, snap and number.. ( which was kinda fishy) although my dumb-ass thought it was due to my skills

And a month or something passed.. She openly used to call me.. Do some naughty stuff on video calls.. ((thing is i never payed her not even a single dollar (yet had gotten her all info, neither took her to pvts yet saw her nude body. (( she was acting pretty rare nude on sites then)

Month passed, she even planned to visit my home place.. And showed me. Her family, friends.. Introduced me to her single mom ( at this points I was getting mixed signals)

And one final day she says ( she can't talk with me anymore as her phone is damaged and she doesn't have any money left as her dog was recently sick diagnosed with cancer bla bla and needs about a thousand dollars to buy new iPhone ( fake)
And that evening i was casually browsing r/askreddit. Saw a question.. What if prostitutes and cam. Girls really love the customers.. The answer were mixed.. Some were in true love some were conned.. Some were simps for them

Saw a reply 2 years ago of some guy, told he loves her bla bla bla and all the comment threat said to leave her as it's a sham.. He defended his choice.. And six months later edited reply.. She left him.. And the reason was same.. Except this time the cat had cancer and she can't contact him anymore.. ( he didn't mention her name so am i)

Next time she video called. I replied.. Na-uh bitch, go straight turn left and go fuck yourself
It was a bit rude ib my part.. But was worth it..

I still to this date don't know if that's a coincidence or something true.. But better get rid of it

Oh, goddamn. Practitioners in the online pornography live broadcast industry must be for money and can do all wicked frauds.

Yeah that's a true story, all my point is that, stay true to whatever you are, falling simp for some hot girl os common as someone pointed it takes right time and right words and right vibe match. But later you could be friends try figuring it out.. And then making your move. I know i was knee-deep into this trap yet got out of this.
I'm not saying all the cam chicks are fake. There was this chick on stripchat.. She was kinda like friend to me. We were close.. Knew her out of her studio too.. Her name was ViolettaHill ..
She met her bf on site.. He was apparently from Germany. She literally left from. Ukraine to Germany in hopes of seeing him. They met and they are a happy couple now.. She stopped camming apparently.
So there's both ebb and flow to this topic i guess.. I'm not an expert tho

lurkercreep · 2021-02-27 15:39

(2021-02-24 23:13)Guest Wrote:
(2021-02-22 8:53)You're An Idiot Wrote: .

By the time you see a camgirl she is already hooked up and turnt out. Most of them are already prostituting themselves in high school to the jocks and guys with sports cars. There are no innocent camgirls, they are in the business of getting guys to pay them and keep them coming back to pay more. They will intentionally mindfuck you.

Although many of them fit this description, many on the other hand are the opposite. There are many reasons why girls enter this buisness ,and the most obvious one is being very poor/living in a shitty country.

I agree with you. Every camgirl I met has been completely sexually inexperienced and were the worst lays ever.
I think people say things like that out of frustration with themselves not getting laid and scammed.

LFMN · 2021-02-27 16:46

I fall in love with camgirls all of the time - though it usually only lasts for about five minutes, and ends with a couple of tissues.

2021-02-27 16:56

(2021-02-27 9:52)Guest Wrote: wow, you need help. you sound like one of the incels that comes into the 1k lounge on MFC complaining he got scammed because he tipped for skype show.

many of the girls (or studio admin behind the scenes) make fun of people like you, yet they will invite people like me into their rooms when they get down and dirty.

OMG, a hooker made fun of me! I'm devastated.

So everyone in the 1K lounge is an incel now too? I treat them the same way they treat us. Some bitch lies to your face and you kiss her ass, begging her to show you a nipple you are a fucking loser. You're not getting women, you're getting scammed and wasting your life. I go online, jerk off to some whore who puts on a good show and go on with my life. It's just entertainment.

I'm not an idiot

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