(2023-01-18 7:47)Adamjensen1996 Wrote: I'd start with, "Hi, how are you doing?"
Bear in mind that she might have a dozen people talking at her.
Just take her to private and say "I wanted to be alone with you, is that okay?" No model will object to that.
Don't be afraid to say that you're new at this and want to learn the model's rules and limits - it shows respect for her.
And accept that some models are not comfortable getting naked. Not even topless.
Golden rule: if you want her to be sexy, make her feel sexy.
Hmm, you won't believe sir ,but i spend most of my time stalking those girl's room, and take notes of all experienced user's chats like who they introducing themselves ,how they cracking light jokes in the middle of conversation and proceeds future , my brain literally gets blank when i start talking with a model haha. That's why i take screenshots of those chats and apply them but still i think I'm missing more, my main terget on the first step is " how to get myself in her attention so she knows my name and take her to private" that's the most of the most difficult thing, once i accomplish this ,then from the next season no matter what it take 6 ,7 ,it would be a cake walk i guess. And ofcourse there is a money matter. But what i trying to learn is i saw many legends here say they just crack them in Their first private and that too within 1p minutes of pvt , doing dildo anal, bating ect.. the first thing i want to learn is how to introduce myself ( like you mentioned above, i shall to the same from now on), then how to proceeds the chat?, how to read her mood? Should I ask her about her mood or i have to feel that? I see many users who drains credits on models but gets nothing because she doesn't trust those guys ,but how to make her trust with me and take her to pvt ! Well i guess you solved one of my problem.. but the main thing i lack is conversation skills , cracking light jokes to make her mood better!! There where the computation lies.
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You seem to be treating this almost like it's dating women in real life. It's not that. The number one thing models care about on these sites is making money and to keep you and other people coming back for more. I don't think conversation skills will make that much of a difference if a model will get nude or not. You could be the coolest guy in the world and she may still not get nude for you for reasons I mentioned in my last comment.
If you want ideas of what to talk about, it's the same as in real life. Just talk about every day life. Work, friends, hobbies, plans for the future, where you live. And ask about their life also. Just don't ask these questions all at once like you are giving an interview. Let the conversation flow naturally. Ask a question, when she answers, you comment and give opinions. Try to avoid switching from topic to topic too quickly. It makes it seem like you are trying too hard and going off a script. At the same time try to avoid staying on one topic for too long unless it's something she seems really interested in. You have to find the sweet spot with topic switching. lol.
One of my female internet friends does quick topic switching with me sometimes to hide the fact that she's multi tasking with other stuff and she doesn't know much about what I'm talking about. It doesn't bother me, but it just seems not authentic and you are just looking for something to keep the conversation going.
Not all Hot Flirts are that difficult. Some will get nude simply for a $50 tip. Some don't even require tips, they just don't want to be in the same section with the hardcore dildo girls.