2023-02-16 8:37
I just hope she is ok
(2023-02-16 4:18)Marksen Wrote: Reasons why a camgirl might suddenly retire are not very complicated:
- Privacy issues: she realizes geoblocking and MCA are useless, that her friends and/or famliy learned and
people record and spread her ass all over the Internet.
- Sentimental reason: She met a guy or a girl.
- Self esteem issues: She feels too much like shit doing this job.
- Money issues: she can't make enough money.
(2023-02-17 6:43)SteTheDragonSlayer Wrote:(2023-02-16 4:18)Marksen Wrote: Reasons why a camgirl might suddenly retire are not very complicated:
- Privacy issues: she realizes geoblocking and MCA are useless, that her friends and/or famliy learned and
people record and spread her ass all over the Internet.
- Sentimental reason: She met a guy or a girl.
- Self esteem issues: She feels too much like shit doing this job.
- Money issues: she can't make enough money.
There's far more reasons than this, Ive known many models who have quit for other reasons.
E.g. 1 recently quit because the schedule from the studio was too much with school and life, studying full time and working 8-10 hours a day on top of that.
Ive known others who quit as this was only a temporary job whilst they studied, they got a a job in their desired career and simply moved on.
Some have had health issues.
Some just got weary of working, being a model is not always easy depending on the members and requests you get.
Some got pregnant and decided to focus on their family but were working, whilst in relationship.
Some just had issues with the studio they worked for and eventually came back.
Whilst i don't know why JudyWood specifically quit, she's a person with a separate life which could also have gotten complicated so could be many reasons.
(2023-02-17 12:24)roni Wrote:(2023-02-17 6:43)SteTheDragonSlayer Wrote:(2023-02-16 4:18)Marksen Wrote: Reasons why a camgirl might suddenly retire are not very complicated:
- Privacy issues: she realizes geoblocking and MCA are useless, that her friends and/or famliy learned and
people record and spread her ass all over the Internet.
- Sentimental reason: She met a guy or a girl.
- Self esteem issues: She feels too much like shit doing this job.
- Money issues: she can't make enough money.
There's far more reasons than this, Ive known many models who have quit for other reasons.
E.g. 1 recently quit because the schedule from the studio was too much with school and life, studying full time and working 8-10 hours a day on top of that.
Ive known others who quit as this was only a temporary job whilst they studied, they got a a job in their desired career and simply moved on.
Some have had health issues.
Some just got weary of working, being a model is not always easy depending on the members and requests you get.
Some got pregnant and decided to focus on their family but were working, whilst in relationship.
Some just had issues with the studio they worked for and eventually came back.
Whilst i don't know why JudyWood specifically quit, she's a person with a separate life which could also have gotten complicated so could be many reasons.
Who is the girl you said left recently?
(2023-02-17 6:43)SteTheDragonSlayer Wrote:(2023-02-16 4:18)Marksen Wrote: Reasons why a camgirl might suddenly retire are not very complicated:
- Privacy issues: she realizes geoblocking and MCA are useless, that her friends and/or famliy learned and
people record and spread her ass all over the Internet.
- Sentimental reason: She met a guy or a girl.
- Self esteem issues: She feels too much like shit doing this job.
- Money issues: she can't make enough money.
There's far more reasons than this, Ive known many models who have quit for other reasons.
E.g. 1 recently quit because the schedule from the studio was too much with school and life, studying full time and working 8-10 hours a day on top of that.
Ive known others who quit as this was only a temporary job whilst they studied, they got a a job in their desired career and simply moved on.
Some have had health issues.
Some just got weary of working, being a model is not always easy depending on the members and requests you get.
Some got pregnant and decided to focus on their family but were working, whilst in relationship.
Some just had issues with the studio they worked for and eventually came back.
Whilst i don't know why JudyWood specifically quit, she's a person with a separate life which could also have gotten complicated so could be many reasons.
(2023-02-17 16:05)Marksen Wrote:(2023-02-17 6:43)SteTheDragonSlayer Wrote:(2023-02-16 4:18)Marksen Wrote: Reasons why a camgirl might suddenly retire are not very complicated:
- Privacy issues: she realizes geoblocking and MCA are useless, that her friends and/or famliy learned and
people record and spread her ass all over the Internet.
- Sentimental reason: She met a guy or a girl.
- Self esteem issues: She feels too much like shit doing this job.
- Money issues: she can't make enough money.
There's far more reasons than this, Ive known many models who have quit for other reasons.
E.g. 1 recently quit because the schedule from the studio was too much with school and life, studying full time and working 8-10 hours a day on top of that.
Ive known others who quit as this was only a temporary job whilst they studied, they got a a job in their desired career and simply moved on.
Some have had health issues.
Some just got weary of working, being a model is not always easy depending on the members and requests you get.
Some got pregnant and decided to focus on their family but were working, whilst in relationship.
Some just had issues with the studio they worked for and eventually came back.
Whilst i don't know why JudyWood specifically quit, she's a person with a separate life which could also have gotten complicated so could be many reasons.
You're right in a vacuum but the reasons I gave are specific reasons that might make A CAMGIRL suddenly disappear...
- You're right about pregancy or issues with their employess but that's something you can find in any other job and, isn't sudain, as you said, girls might just take a break and come back...
And sorry but "weary of working" in itself isn't one. No camgirl who's making good money is gonna retire because of the job's burden, any job has its burden. They might retire for self esteem issues to have to deal with desperate lonely guys, or for being a "whore", but not because of the job's burdern in itself... there's technically worth than putting your clothes off on camera and posting a couple of BS as a job. Many camgirls work for years and very quicky, they don't even give a fuck and just go through the motions. And you can ban asssholes ayway, most guys being pretty nice actually.
And sorry again but girls quitting because they can mix camming 8 hours a day with studying is usually bullshit from them... These girls weren't probably really studying. Anyone who has really studying will tell you this is barely possible, and there are very very very very few camgirls who are really studying or who keep studying when they start camming... Some girls say that when they retire to look good so their "friends" keep funding them. It is true though that camgirls may retire to START studying and eventually come back.
Camgirls might also retire when they find a job, but not BECAUSE they found a job "in their desire carreer", but because they wanted to retire and find another job to keep getting money, most of these girls actually not having degrees... I mean they don't become professors, lawyers or doctors, entrepreneurs when they quit, right? Meaning that privacy issues (including the ones you gave) , finding a guy or self esteem issues reamin the main reasons why a camgirl might suddenly disappear, not to mention ofc having your country invaded by a criminal monster like ukrainian girls...
(2023-02-18 1:35)Totoma1nt2 Wrote:(2023-02-17 17:04)SteTheDragonSlayer Wrote:(2023-02-17 16:05)Marksen Wrote: You're right in a vacuum but the reasons I gave are specific reasons that might make A CAMGIRL suddenly disappear...
- You're right about pregancy or issues with their employess but that's something you can find in any other job and, isn't sudain, as you said, girls might just take a break and come back...
And sorry but "weary of working" in itself isn't one. No camgirl who's making good money is gonna retire because of the job's burden, any job has its burden. They might retire for self esteem issues to have to deal with desperate lonely guys, or for being a "whore", but not because of the job's burdern in itself... there's technically worth than putting your clothes off on camera and posting a couple of BS as a job. Many camgirls work for years and very quicky, they don't even give a fuck and just go through the motions. And you can ban asssholes ayway, most guys being pretty nice actually.
And sorry again but girls quitting because they can mix camming 8 hours a day with studying is usually bullshit from them... These girls weren't probably really studying. Anyone who has really studying will tell you this is barely possible, and there are very very very very few camgirls who are really studying or who keep studying when they start camming... Some girls say that when they retire to look good so their "friends" keep funding them. It is true though that camgirls may retire to START studying and eventually come back.
Camgirls might also retire when they find a job, but not BECAUSE they found a job "in their desire carreer", but because they wanted to retire and find another job to keep getting money, most of these girls actually not having degrees... I mean they don't become professors, lawyers or doctors, entrepreneurs when they quit, right? Meaning that privacy issues (including the ones you gave) , finding a guy or self esteem issues reamin the main reasons why a camgirl might suddenly disappear, not to mention ofc having your country invaded by a criminal monster like ukrainian girls...
I've dated, in person camgirls. Met multiple ones in real life and still communicate with some that long retired, none have asked me for money. So yes the reasons I listed do occur. I'm not saying your reasons are not also valid reasons why a model may quit, I am saying from personal experience of people I know and still know have quit for these reason and many more.
Pregnancy - you don't need to quit a normal job because of pregnancy (and some models will work whilst pregnant) but as established by this very thread a lot of people do have fantasies and seeing a girl that you "love" being pregnant can be a turn off/heartbreak and cause that girl a loss of earnings potentially. Along side some people don't find pregnant women sexy, some do. Some may come back after pregnancy and pretend it didn't happen and those that loved her before will feel that way now, some girls may never come back.
Weary of work, its not just about stripping and playing with themselves. Some models don't do that, most do. What I meant is there is a lot of things a model may see that can stick with them and be bad for their mental health.
- Always being "on" and trying to please people isn't easy.
- Some things you see in private may stick with you - I remember talking to someone who had been working for a few years successfully, she still was troubled by a private she had early one which involved self mutilation. Yes she continued to work but that's just an example of accumulation of things that bother some girls.
- Dealing with crazy people - yes you can ban them too but ultimately it may not stop some. Think after hearing about her stalker and what he did Adysweet wouldn't be a bit messed up from that and it wouldn't be on a person's mind?
I don't have much more to say to this as you said it for me "And sorry again but girls quitting because they can mix camming 8 hours a day with studying is usually bullshit from them... These girls weren't probably really studying. Anyone who has really studying will tell you this is barely possible" - yes its barely possible which is why they quit.
Ultimately this job can be very profitable if successful, but they're also people with lives away from the webcam and have normal problems, plus additional ones like privacy concerns as you mentioned and for some people there's more important things than money, or they're comfortable making less money but for a job they find easier and can switch off from.
As I said I don't disagree with any of your reasons, just that there can be multiple reasons and I wouldn't say they are the main reasons for it.
And yeah unfortunately having your country invaded and home destroyed is a messed up reason but one that has caused a lot of girls to quit.
Lol liar
(2023-02-18 3:16)slashdotzero Wrote:(2023-02-18 1:35)Totoma1nt2 Wrote:(2023-02-17 17:04)SteTheDragonSlayer Wrote: I've dated, in person camgirls. Met multiple ones in real life and still communicate with some that long retired, none have asked me for money. So yes the reasons I listed do occur. I'm not saying your reasons are not also valid reasons why a model may quit, I am saying from personal experience of people I know and still know have quit for these reason and many more.
Pregnancy - you don't need to quit a normal job because of pregnancy (and some models will work whilst pregnant) but as established by this very thread a lot of people do have fantasies and seeing a girl that you "love" being pregnant can be a turn off/heartbreak and cause that girl a loss of earnings potentially. Along side some people don't find pregnant women sexy, some do. Some may come back after pregnancy and pretend it didn't happen and those that loved her before will feel that way now, some girls may never come back.
Weary of work, its not just about stripping and playing with themselves. Some models don't do that, most do. What I meant is there is a lot of things a model may see that can stick with them and be bad for their mental health.
- Always being "on" and trying to please people isn't easy.
- Some things you see in private may stick with you - I remember talking to someone who had been working for a few years successfully, she still was troubled by a private she had early one which involved self mutilation. Yes she continued to work but that's just an example of accumulation of things that bother some girls.
- Dealing with crazy people - yes you can ban them too but ultimately it may not stop some. Think after hearing about her stalker and what he did Adysweet wouldn't be a bit messed up from that and it wouldn't be on a person's mind?
I don't have much more to say to this as you said it for me "And sorry again but girls quitting because they can mix camming 8 hours a day with studying is usually bullshit from them... These girls weren't probably really studying. Anyone who has really studying will tell you this is barely possible" - yes its barely possible which is why they quit.
Ultimately this job can be very profitable if successful, but they're also people with lives away from the webcam and have normal problems, plus additional ones like privacy concerns as you mentioned and for some people there's more important things than money, or they're comfortable making less money but for a job they find easier and can switch off from.
As I said I don't disagree with any of your reasons, just that there can be multiple reasons and I wouldn't say they are the main reasons for it.
And yeah unfortunately having your country invaded and home destroyed is a messed up reason but one that has caused a lot of girls to quit.
Lol liar
I agree, that sounds fake. Unless he is a studio worker. Dating one cam model after she retires might be believable, but he claims he has dated multiple.
(2023-02-18 6:50)SteTheDragonSlayer Wrote:(2023-02-18 3:16)slashdotzero Wrote:(2023-02-18 1:35)Totoma1nt2 Wrote: Lol liar
I agree, that sounds fake. Unless he is a studio worker. Dating one cam model after she retires might be believable, but he claims he has dated multiple.
Ah you got me! Because you believing me gains me so much that I need to lie about 1 innocuous sentence in an entire post. Lol. I literally have nothing to gain from lying or you believing me so it doesn't matter.
Also it doesn't matter to the rest of my points. ?
(2023-02-18 18:53)slashdotzero Wrote:(2023-02-18 6:50)SteTheDragonSlayer Wrote:(2023-02-18 3:16)slashdotzero Wrote: I agree, that sounds fake. Unless he is a studio worker. Dating one cam model after she retires might be believable, but he claims he has dated multiple.
Ah you got me! Because you believing me gains me so much that I need to lie about 1 innocuous sentence in an entire post. Lol. I literally have nothing to gain from lying or you believing me so it doesn't matter.
Also it doesn't matter to the rest of my points. ?
I wasn't focused on your other points. I already know about all of that and why models leave. People lie for different reasons, I don't know what yours would be. Maybe you just want to sound like a big shot on the internet. Hypothetically, even if you did that you probably spent an insane amount of money to get them to meet you. Or they were not that good looking. There is always a catch.
I don't believe you anyway. If you are going to make such a bold claim, provide some proof or just don't talk about it. It's like me saying I own 4 yachts, a Ferrari, and a 10 bedroom mansion. We can all be anybody we want on the internet.
(2023-02-17 13:45)fotodavid Wrote: she could at least had said something...
(2023-04-27 10:51)hotflirtLJ Wrote: I see she is active as i see that when i enter her page it says she was available a few hours ago.
I also noticed she turns on the videocall from time to time and if i try to call her, it says she is not available at this moment....
very interesting.....
Regards.
(2023-04-27 11:17)Basilikos Wrote:(2023-04-27 10:51)hotflirtLJ Wrote: I see she is active as i see that when i enter her page it says she was available a few hours ago.
I also noticed she turns on the videocall from time to time and if i try to call her, it says she is not available at this moment....
very interesting.....
Regards.
Always have been the case since she left, she's still answering private messages.
Btw if someone have anything worth recorded I could be interested so you can pm me (if it's just random dance on vip, don't bother).
(2023-04-27 11:59)hotflirtLJ Wrote:(2023-04-27 11:17)Basilikos Wrote:(2023-04-27 10:51)hotflirtLJ Wrote: I see she is active as i see that when i enter her page it says she was available a few hours ago.
I also noticed she turns on the videocall from time to time and if i try to call her, it says she is not available at this moment....
very interesting.....
Regards.
Always have been the case since she left, she's still answering private messages.
Btw if someone have anything worth recorded I could be interested so you can pm me (if it's just random dance on vip, don't bother).
Same, if some got something interesting PM
(2023-04-27 20:29)intdev Wrote:(2023-04-27 11:59)hotflirtLJ Wrote:(2023-04-27 11:17)Basilikos Wrote: Always have been the case since she left, she's still answering private messages.
Btw if someone have anything worth recorded I could be interested so you can pm me (if it's just random dance on vip, don't bother).
Same, if some got something interesting PM
Guys, you are just funding her new life with her husband. Don't be fools, she is not who you think she is. While she is a great girl, she was a typical cam girl and along with that goes deception of all levels in order to earn.
She has a new life, just respect it.
(2023-01-28 8:59)BitBit67 Wrote:Touching words(2023-01-28 8:32)Basilikos Wrote:(2023-01-28 7:49)xxwilx Wrote: First post here. It's a long one, she's one of my all time favourites.
I apologise in advance if I go on tangents and ramble on old memories. The timeline is relatively accurate, I just don't remember the exact dates as I deleted my LJ account.
I was one of her regulars over both her accounts Loragrant and Judywood. Last private was in September or October (deleted my account), she was talking about planning a birthday show. Beach theme with swimsuits and just summer outfits, was going to be her most revealing show she said but only for pvts (always worth it). We were planning on what she should buy and how much I have to tip her so she can afford it all lol. She was writing it all down, showing me on her screen things we were searching for etc. Nothing seemed out of the ordinary at all except she was very hungry for some food.
Then she got a sore tooth and couldn't be on much except for couple hours that weekend for her birthday. I missed her that night because she never messaged me that she would be on. She normally sent me a msg or video call 30mins before. Didn't reply to my message either from earlier that day.
She messaged me later and apologised saying she wasn't feeling great, came online just to say hi and someone took her pvt for 2hrs.
Then she had no recollection of her toothache or talking about her birthday plans or anything I mentioned in the above paragraph even though she replied about them in her messages. She did seem very forgetful from time to time. There was one point she suggested a song to me and then not even a week later I told her to play that song again and she freaked out asking how I knew such an uncommon Russian song. Changed the whole mood of the pvt.
There were times I requested things like asking her to put her hands behind her back. She would freeze completely as if she was with a member she had been with that she didn't like. I asked her at the end of the pvt why she looked uncomfortable. She told me in her first ever pvt, the person told her to put her hands behind her back and they fantasized something absolutely disgusting to her.
There was some pvts where she was very sexual, and the next day she would say 'i don't do so and so' even though she did for example handbra by herself in exclusive pvt while showing her face. She would always msg me letting me know she's free for pvt, I'd never push her. she was always very welcoming. She even wore that blue top for me that she has photos in premium album. Sexiest top ever on her. She got very shy and never wore it again even though she showed more skin in her pvts.
Sorry for getting sidetracked, back to the timeline...
She then said she was going away for the weekend.
She then said she was still on vacation at her parents. Originally she said she was going to friend's place for the weekend. I didn't bring it up as pvt msgs with her would go back n forth few times before we understood eachother sometimes.
Then her demeanor changed, she wouldn't give straight answers. Said she doesn't know when she would be back but she will reply. I'd receive at most 2 sentences, she used to send video messages or long written texts before this. She'd send random photos out of the blue. She was messaging me as if she assumed I knew what's been going on with her. At this point I had a feeling something wasn't right. Big feeling she was leaving her country. Her messages felt very rushed, one optimistic, then the next one just confused/indecisive like she wanted to say more but couldn't.
She still came on regularly but didn't reply to messages or open cam. Stopped replying to me I think in November. She said she should be able to come on and will call me but she never did and that was the last contact i had with her. She seemed excited but who knows if it was even her at this point. Reason she changed her account the first time was because someone she knew found out what she was doing and told her parents. She got paranoid the same person would find her on her new account (judywood) so she became A LOT more careful around new users. She knew who her regulars were. I doubt someone found her again but then again it isn't that hard to find her if she did pop up again on LJ. Haven't found her on other sites.
She was one of the top models in the premium stories categories. She came top 5 number of times on her first account.
I had the read receipt option on so i could see when she read my message and vice versa.
For some reason that option disappeared about 4 weeks ago or so. I stopped checking. If anyone knows why please let me know. I think she's blocked me.
I reached out to site support in the chance MAYBE they might give a hint (they usually don't).
They didn't give me any info other than she's an independent model who can leave when she pleases.
She did tell me she was planning on leaving camming altogether by end of this year (2023).
I have a feeling she left her country and is living somewhere else like most Russian camgirls I knew. A lot of them who left LJ are on other sites.
I made this account while searching for her, I stumbled across this post. Really hope she's doing well. Easily one of my favourite models ever.
If anyone knows more, please share.
You know she's active pretty much everyday uh ? She's still probably answering to messages and doing call shows, and rarely comes to instantly go to private. Again, my guess is either she found another job, or she found a bf, and in both cases, she just want to keep contacts with her living wallets to make extra money and in case things turn wrong. She never cared about her members anyway, acting kind but still greedy and hypocritical like all models on this site.
Also, the "read receipts" option is still available in the settings it seems, but I don't use it myself so can't say if it works well or not.
In my opinion we all have to think that models have their own life, their problems, their affections! They are working and telling us what we want to hear and behaving as we please! After our pvt, however long it may be, another member enters who feels and sees the same things and maybe more generous than us! Talking about friendship and intimacy when we get it only by paying a per minute rate seems so absurd to me... Friends don't take money to stay with us, maybe a few beers!
(2023-08-01 5:43)intdev Wrote:(2023-07-25 12:33)hotflirtLJ Wrote: she stoped coming to the site to read messages
I told you, even in pm I think...she's moved on, everyone else should too. She has a life that needs to leave her cam girl persona in the past now.